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Great skit. I had trouble with a regular family doctor for quite some time. Of course I was seeing heart specialist and heart surgeons etc., but they always asked who is your primary car giver. Fuck. So I got this lady I liked and went to her for a couple of years. Bam she decides to move to Nebraska. So I was in the woods again. After all the specialist gave up on me and said pack it in get ready to die. That is when I found the Teddy Bear doctor I go to now. My BFF was using him and really liked him. I love the man. The first thing I did was asked him if planned to move, get married, divorced, go into another area of practise etc. He laughed and so no he planned to stay right where he is. Cool. Then he went over all my stuff from the heart doctors, kidney doctors etc. He said he felt they had me on the wrong medications, of course by this time I was crying. He prayed for me. Right then and there. He said if you will stick with me and work with me on this new regime of medications we will be sitting here 10 years from now laughing about all of this. So I said okay you are on. But no hospitals and no more heart doctors. Period. He agreed. I see him ever month. Medicare pays 80% of his bill and he writes off the rest. 2 years now and I am still here and my heart has gained 25% of it's use it that time. So the Teddy Bear is my angel for sure. I am on a lot of medication, but no bad side effects on any thing. He takes his time with me. If I question something he looks it up and shows me the proof of what he is saying. I really do love the man. I also have hope which the heart doctors had ripped away from me. They told me flat out go home and prepare to meet your maker real soon. Fuck. So I hope you find a good one. Sorry i got carried away here.
I worry so much about you!! I remember you blogging about those other docs writing you off. I'm so glad you've got the Teddy Bear doc now, it seems like you're in good hands. Every time I see his picture on your page I smile, he looks like he has a good heart. :-)
Oh he does. And willing to admit when he isn't completely sure about something. We do an ultrasound ever six months to see what is going on. My legs don't hurt as often any more so the circulation is better. woot
aww, that really sucks. it's good to have a doctor you feel really comfortable with and feel like he actually cares about you.

but what a neat thing to leave for.. is he going to send free copies to all his former patients when it's finished?

hope you find a new one without too much trouble.
I like my doc, too. He is a DO, and has two other DOs in with him.
Luckily I also like the woman that is in with him, cuz I think mine is about to retire, too.
We've had a long and wonderful relationship. He is a hoot and a half.
Whether my cooch is in his face, or not.
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Yep - I do know who you are! And I thank you for your kind words. Send an e-mail to doc@(my last name).us ... and I'll make sure to send you updates over time.

Not much about my transition is bloggable .. but I'll say here that it's been a very hard decision to make - and that I worry that the way we deliver care in the US is inherently broken. I have enormous respect for my colleagues who see patients "full-time" but I would argue that in fact it is not possible to do this well in light of the volume of work that physicians need to carry. It's not the "seeing patients" part of the work that is the problem. It's the work that most people never see: returning phone calls until 7 PM, responding to letters from insurance companies, filling our paperwork, writing lengthy progress notes, etc.

So - yeh - the work I'm focusing on now is (I hope) going to help physicians focus more on patient care .. and less on this other stuff.

Speaking of which .. heh .. I'll get back to work. :-)

- JMR
Thanks for the note, Dr. Reider. It's so interesting to get your perspective on balancing all of the things you have to do as a doctor. I do hope you are successful in your endeavor.
I cannot agree more with Valerae's article about Dr. Reider. I too am a patient of his along with my husband and when we had our son last year, I trusted him enough to have him as my son's pedi. I just loved Dr. Reider;s approach to the practice. Now I am having a hard decision whether to actually go back to their practice or to move to another :-(. I hate moving to a different one, esp. knowing my comfort level with my doctors. If ever Dr. Reider comes back to work, he can count us in. But for now, I have hard choices to make!!!!
For what it's worth, I saw Dr. Aitken a couple of weeks ago and liked her a lot. Even though I saw her at the end of what appeared to be a very busy day, she still took time with me and really listened.
Thanks for the information. Maybe I can convince my husband to give her a chance and maybe we can take from there.

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